"Love means the body, the soul, the life, the entire being.
We feel love as we feel the warmth of out blood,
we breathe love as we breathe air,
we hold it in ourselves as we hold our thoughts.
Nothing more exists for us."

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Never Mind, There's Tomorrow


Once, there lived a child. He lived in a happy family with parents and siblings. However, he never stopped to think about how wonderful his life had been. He just kept on playing, squabbling with his siblings when they did not want to play what he wanted to play. 
However, whenever he wanted to apologize, he would always say, "Never mind, there's tomorrow."
When he grew up a little, school was a very nice place for him. He learned, made friends and was very happy. However, he never thought that this was happiness to him. It all came so naturally that he felt it should become part of his life. One day, he had a great fight with his best friend. Though he knew he was in the wrong, he never took the initiative to apologize or made up with his best friend.
His excuse was, "Never mind, I'll do it tomorrow."
When he grew even up some more, that best friend was no longer part of his life. Even though he still sees his friend around, they don't even bother greeting each other. However, that was all right because he still had other good friends. He and his friends did almost everything together including eating, playing, doing homework and fooling around. Yes, they were a bunch of very good friends.
When he graduated, work kept him very busy. He found himself a very pretty and virtuous girlfriend and she soon became his constant companion. He made himself busy with work because he wanted to get promoted to the highest position within the shortest time possible.
After he got married with kids, he works even harder in order to bring comfort to his family. He never buys flowers for his wife nor does he remember his wife's birthdays and their wedding anniversaries. It was all right because his wife always understood him and never blamed him. Sure, he missed his good friends. He missed them a lot but he never tried keeping in touch with them, not even a telephone call.
He always said, "Boy, I'm so tired, I'll catch up with them tomorrow."
It didn't affect him at all because he could find colleagues who are always willing to go pubbing with him. As time passes by, he slowly forgets about his friends.
He felt guilty at times and wanted very much to have a chance to say to his wife, "I love you", but he never got down to doing it.
His excuse was, "Never mind, I'll do it tomorrow for sure".
He never made it to his children's birthday parties but he did not know how it would affect the children. The children began to drift away from him as they never really spend any time with their father.
One day, disaster struck and his wife was killed in an accident. It was a hit and run accident. On that day, he was in the middle of an important meeting. Failing to understand that it is a fatal accident, he arrived by his wife's deathbed only to see her on the verge of death. Before he could mouth out the words, "I love you", his wife passed away.
He moved into the best old folk's home which provides excellent service with the money he had saved for his fiftieth, sixtieth, and seventieth wedding anniversary celebrations. All the money intended for Hawaii, New Zealand and holidays in various countries went into the fund that pays for his stay in the home.The man became despondent and tried to find solace with his children after his wife's death. However, he soon realized that the children did not even try to communicate with him. Soon, his children grew up and found their own families. Nobody cared for this old man who didn't spare his time for them in the past.Time never stops for anybody. Before you realize it, you have gone very far along the path of life. Hence, if you had quarreled with someone, make up quickly! If you feel you need to hear your friend's voice, don't hesitate to pick up the phone. If there are many dreams that you wish to fulfill, fulfill them as soon as possible. Lastly, but most importantly, if you feel you need to tell somebody that you care, don't wait until it is too late. If you keep thinking you will do it another day, then that day will never come. If you always think that tomorrow will come, then 'tomorrow' will run out quickly and you'll realize that time has already passed by. Treasure tomorrow and don’t live a life of regrets.Time never stops for anybody. Before you realize it, you have gone very far along the path of life. Hence, if you had quarreled with someone, make up quickly! If you feel you need to hear your friend's voice, don't hesitate to pick up the phone. If there are many dreams that you wish to fulfill, fulfill them as soon as possible.From that time until his deathbed, there were only old folks and nurses taking care of him. He felt the loneliness that he did not feel before. Upon his deathbed, he called a nurse in and said to her, "Ah. If only I had realized this earlier... ", and died with tears on his cheeks.Lastly, but most importantly, if you feel you need to tell somebody that you care, don't wait until it is too late. If you keep thinking you will do it another day, then that day will never come. If you always think that tomorrow will come, then 'tomorrow' will run out quickly and you'll realize that time has already passed by. Treasure tomorrow and don’t live a life of regrets.

A Great Life


I've heard the saying, "The best gift parents can ever give to their children is to love each other."
I've had the pleasure of witnessing the truth of this statement for over 40 years. From as far back as I can remember my Mom and Dad were a team. A great partnership. They were more than just a partnership. It was as if they were one person.
Sure, they argued, but there was never any doubt in our minds that any disagreements would be worked through and resolved. Mom and Dad began their married life poor, but they worked hard and over the years, built a very successful business. They each had their strengths and weaknesses, but the way they worked together, you never saw the weaknesses, just the strengths.
Dad was the outgoing, more public person with whom people met and fell in love with right away. Everyone knew Dad! Then, when they got to meet Mom, they felt the exact same way about her as well. Mom, although not at all shy, was more comfortable being the person behind the scenes. More details oriented, she ran the books and according to Dad, was the one who really made the business work.
The biggest lesson about love and marriage that my mom and dad taught us kids was how to talk "about" your spouse. Have you ever heard husbands and wives when speaking to others make unkind remarks about their spouses? It's one of those things people just seem to do. Sure, they're "only kidding" or maybe they are not. But words matter. And words teach, whether positively or negatively.
You would never hear such a thing from my mom and dad. Dad always speaks of Mom in the most complimentary, glowing terms. Mom does the same of him.
This lesson made such an impression on me. I still remember when I was age twelve and we were installing carpets in our home. The crew boss was one of those stereotypical beer guzzling, hard-living guys, who would have probably belonged to Ralph Kramden's Raccoon Lodge from the old Honeymooner's TV show. For lunch, my folks bought pizza for the crew. Dad went to talk with the boss about the job. I was around the corner listening.
The boss said, "This is an expensive job. Women will really spend your money, won't they?"
Dad responded, "Well, I'll tell you. When they were right there with you before you had any money, it's a pleasure to do anything for them you possibly can after you have some money."
This wasn't the answer the carpet installer expected to hear. He was looking for negative banter about wives which, to him, was natural.
He tried again, "But, gee, they'll really play off that and spend all they can, won't they?"
Dad replied, as I knew he would, "Hey, when they're the reason you're successful, you want them to do the things they enjoy. There's no greater pleasure."
Strike two.
The crew boss tried one more time, "And they'll take that as far as they can, huh?"
Dad responded, "She's the best thing that ever happened to me. I'd do anything to make her happy."
I was trying not to laugh.
I knew he wanted Dad to give in just a little bit and say, "Yeah, I guess that's true."
But it wouldn't happen… Not in a million years!
Finally, the installer gave up and went back to work, probably shaking his head in bewilderment. Witnessing my dad in that moment taught me more about loving and respecting your wife than anything he could ever have told me about the subject.
Mom and Dad are now retired and enjoying their life together, just hanging out, reading, and visiting their children and grandchildren. They recently celebrated their 43rd wedding anniversary.
They still hold hands, and they are more in love than ever.
Throughout the years, whenever Mom would remind me that I should be looking to get married, I'd say, "Ma, I have plenty of time."
She'd jokingly reply that I don't have "that" much time.
My Dad would then look at me in that wisdom-filled, city streets bred way of his and say, "Hey, you take all the time you need. If you marry someone just half the woman your mother is, you'll have a great life."
I should only be so lucky.

DIAZ-FRONIA- THIS IS THE MOMENT

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FOREVER


When walking through the garden one day I
meandered past the tree of life when I
became enamored by the most divine
dark Rose that nature ever fashioned. So
astounding was the Rose that I was robbed
of speech and breath. I fell onto my knees
and stared until my eyes did hurt. The poor
dark rose had suffered lack of proper care,
resulting in an inert outer shell.
I took great care removing petals scarred
from winter’s callous touch. I was amazed
to see inside the tantalizing pink,
dew covered flower open fore my eyes.
A sight so wondrous cannot pass without
adverse effects for those perhaps unlucky,
perhaps most opportune of all. I knelt,
bereft of voice, devoid of breath, and blind;
the Rose, its beauty now replenished, took
great pity on this wretched soul of mine.
Perhaps it was the wind, perhaps it was
celestial intervention, maybe Earth
itself began to shake; you may believe
whatever you decide but as I felt
the Rose incline in my direction I
knew then as I know now no forces were
at play that fateful moment save the Rose
exerting her own will. She chose to give
herself to me that day. When I felt her
soft petals touch my hand, and smelled the dew
that flowed onto my fingers, life became
completely clear. I knew my purpose on
this planet was to find this Rose and love
her evermore. Caressing her long stem,
I felt her shudder faintly as I heard
upon the wind a sigh of consummate
contentment. Leaning in to kiss the Rose,
to taste the sweet ambrosia at her core,
I knew that we were of one mind, brought
together by the strong embrace of love.
As I grasped her roots and pulled her from
the only home that she had ever known,
I promised her that never more would she
endure the harsh effects of winter’s grip.
We walked together down the path that leads
I know not where. It matters not, for we,
together, will abide whatever fate
has planned for us. Forever.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEETHEART " Chad Aaron McCue"

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happy happy birthday sweetheart i make this simple greetings on your birthday. hope you like it. May the Lord will continue to bless you and good health. Wishing you all the best and keep on praying ; soon will get the best reward that were been waiting for so long. Although am not with you to celebrate your birthday today but through my spirit am with you.Mat the good Lord will give you the desire of your heart. On your next birthday we will celebrating together. Enjoy your day. happy birthday again honey. 

Our moments together

we cherished and treasure the moments. We've been waiting for so long to meet each other's. But God will meet us his own perfect time. We would like to share this video to everyone.

Evolution of Relationship with my fiancee's GEM...... story by: Chad A. Mccue


We first met through my sister-in-law; Anna McCue. Anna called me and told me about a close friend of hers that she thought would be good for me and make a good loving, caring wife. I told her i would be interested in talking to her! She emailed her friend and told her about me and showed her a picture of me and said she just wanted to settle down and be loved and find a good man to be with. Gemma emailed me on facebook, then i saw her picture and liked what she had to say! We started conversing on facebook cassually, then started emailing each other on email where it was between us, as we became more interested in one another. Then, we really started wanting to know more of one another and our interest grew deep, we started chatting on Yahoo every night to talk back and forth on chat line. At the same time we were chatting live every night, we started seeing each other on web cam also. After months of chatting and seeing each other daily and nightly, we decided we wanted to meet and see about starting a future together. We had a deep rooted love for each other before we discussed me going to Norway to meet one another. We had already learned somewhat of one another chatting and seeing each other night after night. I loved her facial expressions and teasing she likes to do to me. On top of talking every night, we would text each other during the day. She always would text me good morning or good night!" After months of talking, we knew we had to meet and knew we wanted to share our life togehter and already had fallen in love. We always told each other, we loved one another everyday! Before bringing up going to Norway, i brought up marriage and propsoed online and she said "yes!" Then, i couldn't wait to go spend time with her! I made plane reservations and bought engagement ring and got ready to fly to meet my fiancee 2 weeks later. When i arrived in Norway, Gemma was waiting axiously and pacing with nervousness and sweaty palms eager to hug me. I saw her first and surprised her with a hug and she was speechless and grinning from ear to ear. We went home to her place and relaxed the rest of afernoon just looking in each others eye's and holding one another and talking about the trip and welcome party. The next day she threw a welcome party to meet her friends. The next day we spent the day alone relaxing alone getting to know one another. The day after, we drove to the mountains to a strawberry farm and spent the afternoon picking fresh strawberry's. Another day, we went bowling and shot pool with her friends. Then, we went out for a nice dinner in town and had a relaxing evening. Next to the last day, we went to the mountains and spent time at mall and ate icecream togehter. After the nice dinner and we got back home, we took a nice walk around neighbood. We stopped for a rest and i told her how much i loved her and wanted to spend my life with her and needed her and asked her to be my wife and marry me. She said "yes" and i put the egagement ring on her finger and we hugged and had a long kiss. Then walked for 2 hours holding hands. We learned a lot about each other for the 10 days we spent together side by side. I am extremely comfortable around her and can be myself and can read her easily. She loves me for who i am and doesn't try to change me. I love her beautiful smile and her laid back easy going manner that is just like mine. I love her laugh and the teasing she likes to give me. She completes me and got deep into my heart like no one else ever has. After spending a lot of time with her, she is the first and only person to ever make me feel loved. She is the kindest, sweetest person i have ever had in my life as a mate. I can work things out with her. We can talk about our future and work out any differences that come up and know how to deal with one another. She is easy to read and only asks for love and to be treated right! Every minute i spend with her, makes me want to be with her that much more. I can see the only woman i ever want to love and spend my life with is her and grow old with. I know we will work through challenges and life and she will always love me and have my back. She loves me unconditionally and will always be there for me, like i will for her. I will love her with all my heart and couldn't ask God for a better woman, mate, best friend, or wife. I am glad to have never married and waited for Gemma to come into my life. She makes me laugh, smile, feel loved, and look forward to spending my life with her. She is unselfness, wants to take care of me, be there for me, love me, and be a good wife. We can laugh together, sit in quietness toghether, look into each other's eyes and see the love for one another without saying a word. I am blessed to have found such a wonderful woman like her and could never do any better....she is the best! The hardest part after spending so much time togehter and learning one another and feeling the strong bond between us is the leaving and separation. I never had a doubt about asking her in marriage or knowing she is finally the right one for me. We had an instant attraction to one another and felt chemistry when we met. Chemistry and a bond that will be there the rest of our lives. I couldn't find a better woman for me if i looked for a million years. She took my heart and and will have it until i die. She is the only person i will love and be with until i die also. She is my soul mate and perfect mate. She has the personality, character, and heart i have always been looking for. I couldn't bear to leave her alone to come back home without her by my side. I have never been so sad to leave someone i love behind so much before. It ripped out my heart to come home alone without the woman i truely love and want to be with. We cried in each others arms that morning, knowing we would be separated until we are joined together for good. I have not been myself since and life feels different now for the first time. The only thing that matters is being with the woman i love who is the perfect match for me! Every minute with her by my side feels like a blessing from heaven. God sent her into my life after years of praying and waiting for the right one. I couldn't ask for a prettier, funnier, easygoing, kind-hearted more loving mate. She fills the empties that has always been in my heart. I am looking forward to marrying her, starting a family, coming home to her, always being there, to uplift me when i am down, like i do for her when she is down and needs uplifting. To making her laugh and her funny faces she makes to me that i love so much. No one has ever made me happier! When she is not with me, a part of me is missing! We learned each other quickly and are a lot alike. I look forward everyday to seeing her and talking to her. Since i've gotten back we are much much closer than before. We text constantly all day long and chatt even longer than before. She cannot get here soon enough for me or become my wife quick enough! Our love will grow stronger and closer! We will die side by side and always have each other. She gives me something to look forward to and makes me happier than i've ever been; as i do her...and makes nothing else important in life but her! I love her with all my heart and soul!

THE MEANING

To love is to share life together
to build special plans just for two
to work side by side
and then smile with pride
as one by one, dreams all come true.

To love is to help and encourage
with smiles and sincere words of praise
to take time to share
to listen and care
in tender, affectionate ways.
To love is to have someone special
one who you can always dep...

I have Missed Much in Life


I adore you. You are the most wonderful man. You make me feel loved and worthy of love. i have missed much in life because i did not have the companion. You are the companion that i have wanted for so long. You are the man that i long to share life's adventures with. You are a bestfriend, partner and husband that i can share my innermost sercets with. You are a loving and supportive bestfriend, partner and husband to me. I strive to be a loving and supportive bestfriend, partner and wife to you. I long to help you carry life's burdens and lovingly encourage you as you strecth out to be all that you can be. i love to sit across the couch from you. I long to share the intimancy of talking from the heart. I feel that i have so much love to give and that it has been bottled up inside of me for so very long. No one has been interested in opening the bottle and seeing what was inside. You have not only been willing and interested in opening the bottle, but you have joyfully been surrounded and enveloped with in the love that flows from my heart. You inspire and fully embrace the woman inside me. You are the man that welcomes me with a big, warm smile with your arms outstrecthed. You are the man that loves and longs for my warm hugs. You look at me with eyes full of love when i touch your face and look into your eyes. You warmly welcome my loving hug and kiss. You are the man that I long to love until the end of my days. i love you