"Love means the body, the soul, the life, the entire being.
We feel love as we feel the warmth of out blood,
we breathe love as we breathe air,
we hold it in ourselves as we hold our thoughts.
Nothing more exists for us."

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Evolution of Relationship with my fiancee's GEM...... story by: Chad A. Mccue


We first met through my sister-in-law; Anna McCue. Anna called me and told me about a close friend of hers that she thought would be good for me and make a good loving, caring wife. I told her i would be interested in talking to her! She emailed her friend and told her about me and showed her a picture of me and said she just wanted to settle down and be loved and find a good man to be with. Gemma emailed me on facebook, then i saw her picture and liked what she had to say! We started conversing on facebook cassually, then started emailing each other on email where it was between us, as we became more interested in one another. Then, we really started wanting to know more of one another and our interest grew deep, we started chatting on Yahoo every night to talk back and forth on chat line. At the same time we were chatting live every night, we started seeing each other on web cam also. After months of chatting and seeing each other daily and nightly, we decided we wanted to meet and see about starting a future together. We had a deep rooted love for each other before we discussed me going to Norway to meet one another. We had already learned somewhat of one another chatting and seeing each other night after night. I loved her facial expressions and teasing she likes to do to me. On top of talking every night, we would text each other during the day. She always would text me good morning or good night!" After months of talking, we knew we had to meet and knew we wanted to share our life togehter and already had fallen in love. We always told each other, we loved one another everyday! Before bringing up going to Norway, i brought up marriage and propsoed online and she said "yes!" Then, i couldn't wait to go spend time with her! I made plane reservations and bought engagement ring and got ready to fly to meet my fiancee 2 weeks later. When i arrived in Norway, Gemma was waiting axiously and pacing with nervousness and sweaty palms eager to hug me. I saw her first and surprised her with a hug and she was speechless and grinning from ear to ear. We went home to her place and relaxed the rest of afernoon just looking in each others eye's and holding one another and talking about the trip and welcome party. The next day she threw a welcome party to meet her friends. The next day we spent the day alone relaxing alone getting to know one another. The day after, we drove to the mountains to a strawberry farm and spent the afternoon picking fresh strawberry's. Another day, we went bowling and shot pool with her friends. Then, we went out for a nice dinner in town and had a relaxing evening. Next to the last day, we went to the mountains and spent time at mall and ate icecream togehter. After the nice dinner and we got back home, we took a nice walk around neighbood. We stopped for a rest and i told her how much i loved her and wanted to spend my life with her and needed her and asked her to be my wife and marry me. She said "yes" and i put the egagement ring on her finger and we hugged and had a long kiss. Then walked for 2 hours holding hands. We learned a lot about each other for the 10 days we spent together side by side. I am extremely comfortable around her and can be myself and can read her easily. She loves me for who i am and doesn't try to change me. I love her beautiful smile and her laid back easy going manner that is just like mine. I love her laugh and the teasing she likes to give me. She completes me and got deep into my heart like no one else ever has. After spending a lot of time with her, she is the first and only person to ever make me feel loved. She is the kindest, sweetest person i have ever had in my life as a mate. I can work things out with her. We can talk about our future and work out any differences that come up and know how to deal with one another. She is easy to read and only asks for love and to be treated right! Every minute i spend with her, makes me want to be with her that much more. I can see the only woman i ever want to love and spend my life with is her and grow old with. I know we will work through challenges and life and she will always love me and have my back. She loves me unconditionally and will always be there for me, like i will for her. I will love her with all my heart and couldn't ask God for a better woman, mate, best friend, or wife. I am glad to have never married and waited for Gemma to come into my life. She makes me laugh, smile, feel loved, and look forward to spending my life with her. She is unselfness, wants to take care of me, be there for me, love me, and be a good wife. We can laugh together, sit in quietness toghether, look into each other's eyes and see the love for one another without saying a word. I am blessed to have found such a wonderful woman like her and could never do any better....she is the best! The hardest part after spending so much time togehter and learning one another and feeling the strong bond between us is the leaving and separation. I never had a doubt about asking her in marriage or knowing she is finally the right one for me. We had an instant attraction to one another and felt chemistry when we met. Chemistry and a bond that will be there the rest of our lives. I couldn't find a better woman for me if i looked for a million years. She took my heart and and will have it until i die. She is the only person i will love and be with until i die also. She is my soul mate and perfect mate. She has the personality, character, and heart i have always been looking for. I couldn't bear to leave her alone to come back home without her by my side. I have never been so sad to leave someone i love behind so much before. It ripped out my heart to come home alone without the woman i truely love and want to be with. We cried in each others arms that morning, knowing we would be separated until we are joined together for good. I have not been myself since and life feels different now for the first time. The only thing that matters is being with the woman i love who is the perfect match for me! Every minute with her by my side feels like a blessing from heaven. God sent her into my life after years of praying and waiting for the right one. I couldn't ask for a prettier, funnier, easygoing, kind-hearted more loving mate. She fills the empties that has always been in my heart. I am looking forward to marrying her, starting a family, coming home to her, always being there, to uplift me when i am down, like i do for her when she is down and needs uplifting. To making her laugh and her funny faces she makes to me that i love so much. No one has ever made me happier! When she is not with me, a part of me is missing! We learned each other quickly and are a lot alike. I look forward everyday to seeing her and talking to her. Since i've gotten back we are much much closer than before. We text constantly all day long and chatt even longer than before. She cannot get here soon enough for me or become my wife quick enough! Our love will grow stronger and closer! We will die side by side and always have each other. She gives me something to look forward to and makes me happier than i've ever been; as i do her...and makes nothing else important in life but her! I love her with all my heart and soul!

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